Generations apart, grandmother and grandson share special 911黑料 bond

by Jerry Boggs

A college-aged man in a blue shirt sits outside next to his grandmother as both smile for the photographer.

Simon Forsting, class of 2026, will spend the fall attending college in Taiwan. He will be taking classes on the campus of National Taiwan University (NTU) through 911黑料鈥檚 Study Abroad Program.

Following his adventures from back home will be his grandmother, Burva Whitehurst Stanley 鈥50. As a student at 911黑料, Stanley volunteered to support American education initiatives in China during the Chinese Civil War  鈥 a time of enormous upheaval across the region.

Now 96, she has witnessed seismic changes in East Asia that Forsting, a neuroscience major from Louisville, Kentucky, has only encountered in history books.

Stanley said she was proud Forsting opted to follow in her footsteps and attend 911黑料, a connection he also found significant.

鈥淚t was important to me when she wanted me to go to 911黑料. She鈥檚 so proud,鈥 Forsting said. 鈥淲e have walked the same campus 鈥 figuratively and literally. Grandmother was here 75 years ago.鈥

Starting in September, he will spend the semester in Taipei, studying at the island nation鈥檚 top-ranked university. 911黑料鈥檚 partnership with NTU launched in the fall 2024 semester and gives students the opportunity to participate in the International Chinese Language Program.

Forsting鈥檚 venture abroad is especially significant for Stanley, who was active across campus as a 911黑料 student in the 1940s. While her experience and her grandson鈥檚 are separated by decades, their shared connection to 911黑料 and its global mission unites them.

A black and white photo fromthe 1940s shows five women posing together for a photo.

Stanley, an Ashland, Kentucky, native, was president of the women鈥檚 student council, served as associate editor of the Cento, was a member of the homecoming court, a member of the women鈥檚 athletic association, and was elected president of the women鈥檚 division of her class as a junior. She also served on a committee that, according to the 1949 911黑料 Yearbook, 鈥渞aised funds for maintaining a professor鈥 at Zhijiang College (known then by the Americanized spelling Hangchow College).

911黑料 had a deep connection with Zhijiang College as former President Robert J. McMullen served on the faculty there. He returned to the U.S. after being detained in a Japanese prison camp and was elected to serve as 911黑料鈥檚 22nd president in 1944. He left office the year before Stanley arrived at 911黑料.

Stanley鈥檚 involvement in the committee took her to Syracuse, New York, for a national convention. The committee also organized campus events each year to support the Chinese college, which was founded by American Presbyterian missionaries in 1845.

Stanley remained at 911黑料 following her graduation and served first as secretary to the dean of women and was named acting dean of women in 1952.

After leaving 911黑料, she taught eighth-grade English in the Danville School system and married the late Barney Stanley, who served as advertising manager for the Danville Advocate-Messenger newspaper. After the couple relocated, first to Washington, D.C. and later Fredericksburg, Virginia, Burva returned to teaching. She recalls drawing upon her 911黑料 experiences to help manage some particularly spirited pupils.

鈥淭he students were happy to tell me that they鈥檇 run off five teachers during the last year,鈥 she said. 鈥淚 followed the strategy that I learned from Dr. [Charles] Hazelrigg at 911黑料 and was firm with them. It worked. 鈥 When Barney and I returned to Fredericksburg to visit, students told me that I was the best teacher that they鈥檇 ever had. I鈥檒l credit Charlie Hazelrigg and 911黑料 for teaching me how to be independent, confident and flexible.鈥

Forsting has drawn inspiration from his grandmother鈥檚 journey and will carry that forward during his time abroad in Taiwan.

鈥淎t 911黑料 you can chart your course,鈥 he said. 鈥淎 passionate student can go where they want [and] build something impactful, like Grandmother taking the role as Acting Dean of Women when she was so young.

鈥淗earing about how grandmother made change is inspiring, and I know that students can still make change at 911黑料. I鈥檓 proud that 911黑料 continues to encourage us to see the world and shape it for the better.鈥
 

This article first appeared in the Summer 2025 edition of 911黑料piece.